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Preparing For a Divorce
Many changes will come to your life when you decide to divorce, and although the choice is not always an easy one, it can improve your personal circumstances and give you the chance for a fresh start. During those first days, the decision may seem overwhelming; however, there are a few steps you can take to prepare that may make the process easier.
1. Contact An Attorney
Having an attorney in your corner during the divorce can help you feel more confident about certain court proceedings, such as requesting alimony and child support. An attorney can also help you file certain papers required to begin the process and even represent your best interests when you do not wish to have any further contact with your spouse until certain matters are settled. This may make you feel more in control as the divorce continues.
2. Organize Finances
Separating finances can be a particularly tricky part of a divorce, so it is best to start as soon as you decide to end your marriage. Retrieve tax and bank records, account information and let your attorney know about any joint accounts you have with your spouse. You may also want to make a list of assets and debts you share and provide your attorney with copies of all this information.
3. Build a Support Circle
One of the most important things you can do for yourself as you prepare for divorce is to ensure you have a solid circle of support around you. Going through a divorce can make you feel isolated, which could lead to depression and other mental health issues. Let trusted friends know about your decision and ask if they are willing to offer you emotional support as you navigate your divorce.
4. Focus on the Future
One major issue that tends to hold back those who choose to divorce is agonizing over the past. Mistakes made on both sides, parenting arguments and other issues that cause these splits can be painful, but focusing on the future, not the past, can help you feel better about your current choices and support the life you will live after your divorce. Considering important choices like housing, whether you will co-parent with your ex and how you plan to manage your finances alone can help you break free of negative, circular thoughts about the past.
When your life is impacted by divorce, it can turn the world you have known for so many years upside down but you do not have to face the process on your own. Contact a divorce lawyer from Winfrey Law Firm, PLLC today for a consultation and further information.
